Happy New Year! Brace yourselves. I believe I have hit upon the one New Year’s Resolution we ALL need to make. Eat healthier, exercise, quit smoking (Yes, Dear, me included!), those are all very good. Be nicer to strangers, call your mom more, stop listening to the Voices (Sorry, that one’s just me!), also excellent ideas. I believe, however, that our ENTIRE NATION is in desperate need of our combined efforts in another area.
What was, in my youth, a nation of fifty states, ALL of which proudly proclaimed themselves red, white, and blue, has digressed, of late, into an angry rabble. Now states are either red or blue. That’s it. The only white to be found is the flag of surrender run up by the concepts of courtesy, decency, and respect, all of which have been so badly beaten into submission, that they have long since fled the field. We have allowed ourselves to become a nation of Hatfields and McCoys. Political debates today should begin with the words, “And in this corner...”
I’m NOT pointing any fingers. I suspect there is enough blame to go around for BOTH sides. I’m neither slinging mud, nor throwing rocks. I am merely suggesting that BOTH sides learn to play well together. We’ve only got this one sand box! “I saw it first!” “He’s poking me!” “Nuh-uh!” “Yeah-huh!” Is this really how we want to behave? Have the parents truly regressed into behaviors that we wouldn’t tolerate from our own children? Have we all, in fact, become the children?
I’ve been just as guilty as the next person. But, isn’t admitting the problem the first step? I’m not suggesting that anyone surrender their beliefs, only that we all stop thinking of those who hold beliefs which differ from our own as being “Stupid” (or worse). I know I’ve often been confused when I view a political topic and see it as “THIS”, only to have someone else view the same topic and see it as “THAT”. It’s easy to assume that there’s something wrong with the other person’s eyes, and barring that, the brain behind them. BUT, what if you know that other person to be afflicted in neither area?
When I find myself slipping into such behaviors, I remember four specific individuals: A neighbor, now retired, who once served in high positions in the Republican Party in his home state, even unto a Presidential appointment! Two women, both Realtors (Yes, many of them HAVE souls!), one a former journalism major, the other the wife of a retired Colonel in the U.S. Army. And a gentleman a few years my senior, with whom I discuss such topics regularly in an area pub. ALL of these people are possessed of keen and agile minds, all have sharp wits, all have good hearts, and all are good souls. Almost invariably though, where I see “THIS”, they see “THAT”.
I can not, and WILL NOT dismiss them as being either dim, dull, delusional, or Dark, and I know myself to be none of these as well. I also know that I can’t be only one who has found himself in this situation, and I know it’s not a new phenomenon. Thomas Jefferson wrote:
Subject opinion to coercion: whom do you make your inquisitors? FALLIBLE men; men governed by bad passions, by private as well as public reasons. And why subject it to coercion? To produce uniformity. But is uniformity of opinion desirable? No more than of face or stature.
Reason and persuasion are the only practicable instruments. To make way for these free inquiry must be indulged: and how can we wish others to indulge it while we refuse it ourselves?
Jefferson was speaking of the coercion of religious thought, but I find the words apply just as aptly to the area of political debate today. Something is broken. We can fix it, but we must do it together. No one else will do it for us. That’s NOT their job! That’s OUR job! WE THE PEOPLE. That’s why we got top billing on that paper so long ago. We can build a better sand box, but we CANNOT do it bickering amongst ourselves. If you must think of it as two teams, think of it as Offense and Defense, but BOTH wearing the SAME jerseys! Because if all we do is continue to beat red and blue against one another, all we’ll get is PURPLE. You know, the color of old bruises! We the People deserve better than old bruises.
Again, Happy New Year, and Good Luck!
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